wedding checklist
was reading a bridal magazine when i came across a useful article for myself.
as a newly-wedded couple, i sometimes don't quite understand why my wife and myself quarrel so much over seemly trivial things. alex mentioned that it is normal for couples to quarrel and he will gladly be in my shoes. i do not see it that way. i believe that there should be a way to end these useless quarreling and put the time wasted to more useful pursues. i shall try to follow the advice given the magazine and hope things actually turn out better.
- be prepared to compromise with your spouse.
- don't expect your spouse to meet needs that a person can only meet for himself.
- be flexible
- be forgiving
- be committed to finding resolution and put in the hard work required.
i seldom read these magazines. i used to think that they are full of advertising. now, i still think they are full of advertising but they sometimes contain nuggets of information that can prove to be useful.
1 comment:
Yo bro,
No wonder u sound so depressed over the phone recently. I believe u 2 will work things out. Things will be better, so dun worry ok?
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